I just want you all to know that I care. Sometimes I just don't know what to say. Sometimes I'm too tired. Sometimes I empathize with your pain too much and anything I say would just make things worse. But please, please, please, believe that even if I don't respond to your post, I read, I care, I love you. I mean that. I can come across abrasive--at least that's what I've been told IRL--but I'm a big teddy bear with a soft heart and I wish I could embrace you all with a big hug.