I didn't yell at him. In a calm voice, I asked him if it would make any difference to him if I told him his rudeness bordered on abuse. I meant every word of it!! I stand behind my statement! This is his MO to keep from taking care of his responsibilities and to get out of doing anything! What else was I supposed to do?? My skin was crawling because my neighbor was very patiently sitting in the living room waiting for HIM to get done with his beer! That was just an excuse! My heart was pounding and my blood pressure is still up!!!

ARGH!!!!!