Melissa, there is something else to consider. Are you trying to salvage this relationship out of fear - fear of being able to manage all your financial and parental resources on your own, without this man's help.
This issue, I wonder if maybe it comes just after the love issue. If you love him and he loves you then find the way to get help for the issues. Problems can be overcome and it's not easy. I need to do some of these things myself. So, I know they are hard. I hope things work out well for you and your family.
leslie and the pixies
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