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Old Feb 05, 2009, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted by madisgram View Post

1. when david hears the voice, it's usually the same man, should i encourage him to ignore the voice? i've read 2 different schools of thought on this. yes and no basically are the answers i read. is there an activity we can do that can divert his attention somewhat
My take: Ignore? Maybe easier said than done. I'd say maybe it is something that needs being paid attention -- but not all the time. Diversions and time-outs are probably good too. After all, he is not only the voices.

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2. i've been to another forum that tells me that some music can provoke a downswing in mood. i witnessed this yesterday while we were in the car. how do i know which music to avoid? should i ask david directly?
Sounds good to me!

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3. given that he has a phd in psychology i can especially appreciate his depression about having this condition. he was well aware many years ago what was happening to him. will his moods vascillate like a bipolar person(me) or does it have other chemical causes?
I don't know about chemical, but yes, moods will vary a lot.

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4. david seems to move in slow motion. mind you he's 61 but that isn't old-old to me. he has difficulty remembering things. like basic directions of how to do something. should i expect him to focus more on what i am saying or is this another characteristic of the condtion?
Anxiety can mimic other problems, since it can take up so much energy coping with it.

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one thing i've already noticed is david seems so comfortable with my sweet doggie. that is a good start in the right direction. now the two legged master of doggie needs some help. thank you all.
Doggies and other animals are good. After all, we are animals too. We can relate.
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