When faced with decisions like this I try to find a quiet place to breathe and see if I really have a feelings on which direction I want to go. You could just sit on it for now and wait to see if he continues to contact you. See how interested he really is in having a health relationship with you. If he is motivated maybe you can then say... "Hey, you really hurt me. I'm only interested in interacting with you if you make some significant changes in the way that you treat me." If he starts his verbal abuse, hang up... he's not ready.
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