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Originally Posted by Kelly3
Hey,
Do you think our relationship is unusual?
Or is it how parent/child relationships should be, and that most families have become further apart, so can't comprehend or understand a close relationship with their child, so therefore automatically assume that a hug is a means of manipulation of some sort?
Your opinions would be much appreciated  |
Maybe not unusual but not near as common as it once was...
Independence comes earlier these days and generally not as a result of choice by the children...our culture has taught parents to "want" more and as a result the raising of children is a lessor priority especially once they have some independence....
You have wonderfull parents who spend time with you and this time allows you to gain mutual respect which is one important of healthy long term relationships...Also affection is expressed in candid and comfortable ways,,without shame or fear....
The looks you see from folks and the comments expressed are envy....
You guys have done well...and these tools of Love will be passed to your children...
A grand family you are.....
Lenny