My3sns, I understand you completely. That back-up secretary was very unprofessional and should have been reprimanded (fired). You did the right thing when you reported her. You are right to be concerned about your files because she may have had access to your personal records and that's a cause for concern.

I think she needs to make an appointment with a mental health professional because she sounds very unstable. YOU ARE NOT OVERREACTING.

BY NO MEANS, DO NOT CANCEL YOUR APPOINTMENTs, ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU'VE ESTABLISHED A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH BOTH YOUR PDOC AND THERAPIST AND DON'T FEEL GUILTY FOR REPORTING THAT FOOL. SHE DESERVED IT.

MY3sns, you also take care of yourself.