My boyfriend is already on medication, hes on effexor xr. His mood is alot better and he seems alot happier but hes just not pulling his weight and taking care of his responsibilities. Fo example i had 2 go help my sister today and then go 4 a blood test so i couldnt take my son with me so i left him at home and when i returned after being gone for 2hrs i couldnt get in the house because he was asleep and the doors were locked. When i finally got in my son had made the biggest mess in the loungeroom toys everywhere, freezer door open, eridge door open and my bf stil just snoozing away on the lounge. This really pisses me off! I cant go anywhere alone because if i do this is what happens all the time! Even if i leave the houre for 15mins i get home and he is asleep! And its not his meds making him tired he always has done this! God i must sound like the biggest whinger, im sorry guys