well,people tend to sterotype everything in a sterotype world in which case everything to much or too little seems harsh for their eyes. But can you tell how close is too close?Or shall we perhaps have something closeness index to measure it?
Every time i do a Minnesota personality test i am wondering : so you think these silly multiple choices will include and differentiate all the people?
Your relationship is not odd at all. This is a modern world and things just differ. Enjoy your threasure buddy.