Yes, she is willing to make changes and exercise. I thank you all for your concerns and different points of view. I think she is very self consious about her overweight, she wont try nothing new because she is afraid of it not working. Yes, AAAA I also did the bed border thing but it frustrates her not been able to kiss me while doing it. She says its like a machine with no passion if I stand far away. I guess we are not looking to just have sex but to make love with passion.

I am going to the doctor to see what can be done while i exercise, maybe a penis enlargement, who knows. I am willing to do the extremes for her and mainly for us. I love her to much to let her go or I should say let the relationship go down.

Thanks, Opinions???