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I think hoping for the ultimate best (that is feeling as if nothing bad ever happened at all) is unrealistic. And it is always better to set realistic goals.
But at the same time I am convinced that there is enough consolation in the thought that the past no longer dictates over my present. I found that pain recedes if therapy takes its mending and soothing effects. There is something that I would describe as a phase of rage, scorn and hatred, followed by mourning. Mourning clears the foul and painful moods, they become endurable. Farther I have not come yet. But so much I can say.
Best wishes,
bluenarciss
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It is the way it is. I can't change that. But there might be a way to change how I react.
(Meanwhile I found out, there are such ways.)
To cope or not to cope - that is the question.
Healing comes from within. As I see it, the trick is to find the lost way back to safe home. Wherever I am, whatever happens to me, my safe home is always with me.
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