Has anyone out there been abused by a spouse? I feel so alone on this even when I know logically I'm not. Its very confusing one minute everything is well then the next I'm back to being the weak person Iwas before. Asking permission to even go to the bathroom!! Its making me nuts, how long does this twisted feelings last. I've been free of abuse for 3 years but these thoughts are just now surfacing. Any help, opinons and comments are all very appreciated.