I think I'm lucky, I think I'm in a generally healthy relationship. We have our troubles here and there like anyone, but we love eachother and we respect eachother. The little things we do by accident are getting worked out, for instance sometimes because he always loves ot have me come with him places he would give me a sad face, or something ... in a way it was guilt tripping and he didnt' even mean to. But we talked about it, and now he corrects himself and everythings better. So I guess, I do believe it exists, I think huge parts of it is about communication. Because communication enables the "not so healthy" part of any relationship to be fixed, as long as you have communication AND love/respect.
I have lots of mental issues - depression has been crazy, I've been dissociation alot, and I'm living with him so he sees it all. But we're making it through.

sending hugs and hoping everyone can find a healthy relationship to be in