Hi there,
There are just as many forms of bpd as there are people.Trying to think how to put this.
Everyone is human but not everyone is the same.
BPD is a diagnosis but its a mix of things and again not everyone is the same.

I have BPD everything i do is inward.If i feel angry i cut myself, If someone makes me angry i cut myself.I have never hurt anyone except myself.
Unfortunely its always other people hurting me.And always me hating myself because i got hurt.
If i told you i was kidnapped tortured and r*ped.
Does it make any difference because i have bpd?

I think what i am saying is if he didnt have bpd would you still be thinking the same.He could of lyed about the bpd he defiently used it as an excuse.
I really dont understand why human beings can be so cruel and i think its just that,he is a cruel human being thats why he did it nothing to do with bpd.

I hope ive made sense.Sorry