Well he called again and this time I picked up the phone. He acted like nothing was wrong. Tried to get me to join him for dinner. I said no had plans. The conversation was not real comfortable and there was much of one. I didn't try to carry on the conversation and made him keep it going. OF course he was feeling sorry for himself becasue he says no one calls him (Gee I wonder why). I know I was distant on the phone, but I couldn't relax and I didn't want to get sucked into his crazyness. I guess it was okay but I do realize I have a lot of anger towards him and there is a part of me that wants him to suffer the hurt and rejection I have felt for so many years. Then the guilt starts in. Still working to get that out of my head! Thanks for all your support.