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Old Feb 08, 2009, 01:38 PM
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you're more than welcome to rant here
it's good to get feelings out that way, which is on reason I worry about her from what i hear. I don't know schizoid tendancies.... but, I've seen for the most part holding in emotions causes so many problems, I hope the T is talking with her about it. Honestly, no idea about the T... could be a useless T (i've seen those before) also could be that he's starting on a level lower than what you're thinking, going for something different... who knows?

Best you can do is maybe ask her if she thinks its helping and consider getting a new one if he doesnt seem to help. I wish it were easier to judge a T as bad or good... there's no standard... and even if there was it's so based on if you get alone with the T or not - and how open you are with that T (maybe the hardest part sometimes, at least for me)

Sometimes T's think they need to deal with the sympotms first - I think maybe getting at root of troubles is MUCH better, but again, i don't know the T, I don't know her

I hope all goes well, keep posting, ranting is GOOD, and you're more than welcome here
(seriously, join the club )
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