(((((((((((((((((((((((HEIDU)))))))))))))))))))))))...

All you can do is try to express your concern and empathy for the parties involved... The rest must lay with them. I have always wanted to try to fix any conflict going on, (throughout my life), and often, I too got hurt in the process.

I still have a tendancy to want to jump in and try to smooth things over, (even tried yesterday, but the subject thread was locked)...

I guess we're supposed to learn how to step back, (which, again, is not easy for me, so I truly do know where you are coming from), and let those more directly involved make choices about how to resolve things, (or not)...

I hope you won't go away, and if you must, I sure hope it isn't for long, because I would really, really really, (X100), miss you!! Most respectfully, and with great affection, Peanut

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue>