My T is so not internet-savvy, so I am positive he doesn't have a facebook.

If he did, there is NO WAY I would send a friend request...he is my therapist, and not my friend, and it is a huge deal to me that it stays that way. I used to be very curious about his personal life...and I do know more and more about it from stories he's shared in therapy...but I really don't want to know "too much". I like the boundaries that we have.

Krazibean, if you do friend your therapist, I would be prepared for a "No" - not because she doesn't care about you very much - but because it is important for her to keep her private life and her professional life separate.