I wouldn't "friend" my T on facebook because my T is not my friend.

My T is on Linked In, and I go to that site sometimes but I haven't signed up. It's a Professional site for career networking and making professional connections. I think I might consider making a link to him there, possibly, but it's not a pressing issue as I'm not a member yet. I am a member on MySpace and I certainly wouldn't want my T to see my page there.