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Originally Posted by ncguynva
First let me give you a hug.....I am down that path right now. My wife cheated on me while she was in school.  Two affairs! She didnt help around the house and thought it would be more beneficial to see her lovers than to do the housewife thing (she begged me to let her a housewife so i let her....and she sucked at it!).
Have you talked to him about this?
If you have, and no difference....try counseling. If he will not go, i would start gathering your things, little by little and spend some time away from him and leave him a note or something. If you are scared (which it sounds like you are) of him, thats the route i would take.
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I just want him to leave. I didn't realize how lucky I was when he was having affairs and not wanting to be with his family. My life was peaceful. He is miserable with himself and that is why he treats me this way. He is incapable of having an adult conversation because he always has to call me horrible names. He has called me every vile, disgusting name that you could call a woman. I am at my breaking point. I do not want to live the rest of my life like this. He actually told me if he leaves that he is taking the dog which I bought with my money from the kids. Great dad.