Im sorry that you are going through this - and that your daughter is in such pain that she SI's
I would talk to the people in charge of the hospital and other hospitals/care centres you are considering and ask them what outcomes they have in mind - what plan they will put in place and exactly how they are going to help your daughter - knowledge is power and they should have a plan - then take it from there
Make sure that they are going to keep you in the loop as to how shes doing - theres confidentiality but they can give you info outside of that - so she feels safe and so do you - I hope you find somthing that works P7
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
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