My mother called me to let me know that the man that molested my step-sister called my step sister and flipped out about me writing that letter to his wife to be. Now my sister is absolutly furious with me. she says she will not step foot in the same house as me. Therefore, there will be no thanksgiving this year or christmas and probably for many years, according to my mom, because my parents won't invite one of us and not the other, and they will not have two holidays. (one for each of us) I knew my sister would be upset, but I thought she might see the greater good. I guess I was wrong. It still really upsets me that she (my sister) doesn't think the wife to be has a right to know. She has many problems to this day because of the abuse, and I can't understand why she would want that for any other child. I do not regret anything I did, and would do it again in a heartbeat. I'm just dissapointed in the way it turned out. Now I'm the one feeling like I've lost something.