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Feb 09, 2009, 06:31 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Posts: 795
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Originally Posted by puffyprue
this might be stupid question but i still dont know what the answer so iam asking why most of us scared to meet our T or pDoc ??well they not bite but i still scared to go to meet my pdoc she so nice but i still scared...please hsraed with me ur experience ty..
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There's a power imbalance, though not just in formal terms.
They get to know us in personal terms, but we don't get to know them as their personal selves. Only as professionals. We open up and expose ourselves in the deepest, most difficult, and vulnerable ways. You go into every session like that, unless you've solved every issue. Which never happens. It gets easier though.
But I'm going to be doing a program and intake coming up for it this week. I'm still worried about it despite having had several T's and pdocs over a 20 year period.
It's a natural part of the relationship.
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