I don't think it's an age thing, you originally posted the thread in relationships. It was moved here to Sexual and Gender because the thread took a turn into the sexual side of your relationship. A person reading a thread in Relationship and Communication doesn't expect to find sexual content, however a person reading a thread in Sexual and Gender would not be surprised to find sexual content.

Age isn't the only factor in play this is mental health site and by definition we have issues. We show each other respect by posting in the appropriate forum and using trigger signs, giving members the opportunity to avoid those things that are difficult for them.

Threads are moved all the time (again, sorry to all of the Mods in general, it only took me a year to figure out what to post there).