Thanks. I actually have no idea! My parents have always been supportive of me (with the possible exception of when I was in therapy, but never mind...), I got good marks at school and do well at university...the only thing I can think of is the "friendships" I had at school, but it could have been my low self-esteem that caused the problems in the first place. Might just be part of my personality, I guess, in which case I don't know if there's any fixing it.