well im getting my knowledge from cosmo, and theyve never steered me wrong before lol. i guess after about 30 days a persons true colors are already flying high. they said that most people cant fake a personality for that long so if you go a month with absolutely no conflict, that seems like a pretty good relationship to me. the only problem i could potentially see is that he is head over heels for me lol. and i need some space. but ive told him "im the kind of person that needs her own space sometimes" and he was fine with it. i tell him i want to stay alone some nights or just hang at my house alone and hes cool with it so i dont really even see that being a problem.

thanks everyone for your responses