i know that all that anger is exciting and you're feeling really mean right now BUT do you really want to start a fight with a drunken neighbor? i believe that it would be hard for us to comunicate with you if you're in jail ...lowering yourself to his level really won't get much done..except lower you to his level....i know that so much of the anger comes from being mad at your husband, so why don't you work on a plan for what you're going to do...if you end up having to make some changes........please be careful, as you don't know when someone could have a gun or a knife .......okay????