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Feb 09, 2009, 09:09 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
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Quote:
Originally Posted by reflection
in all fairness to your ex, if your t had been having an affair with you then your ex did do the right thing by having it reported. it may not have been so much a desire to mess with your life as concern for you, and of course her relationship with you.
take care of yourself.
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This can be said of anyone in therapy. Maybe you're having an affair. Should I report you because the thought enters my mind? Not out of a desire to mess with your life, but because it's possible?
The ex- had no reason whatsoever to suspect something. She suggested no reason to me other than trying to figure out why I would've broken up with her. She couldn't handle that I broke up with her because of her herself, it had to be the wrongdoing of some other(s). She was in a habit of accusing me of that sort of thing. She was jealous of me having a T who I opened up to, and had a vendetta against the T because when the T found out that it was the then still-girlfriend who'd made an appt. with her, she cancelled it. The ex exploded at that news. The ex was a social worker with an MA in psychology. She knew the way the system works re: conflicts of interest and how to F up a T’s career. She was out of touch with reality.
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