I couldn't agree more!! I was married young, and like you I too went to school full-time while working full-time and also holding a part-time job. My ex didn't cheat, or treat me so poorly but I was not happy. He went to work (9-4 M-F) came home and that was about it. The worst he did as not talk to me. He had few friends refused to make any and basically did nothing. I took care of the house, cars, lawn, dogs and made dinner every night before class. Thank God there were no kids, but leaving was honestly one of the hardest but best things I ever did! I ended up moving back home because I had no where to go and very little money.

With the behavior you are describing, do you really want you children growing up in a home where their mother is given so little respect? What is that teaching them about how people in general should be treated. You are worth more than that, every human being is.

Be strong and good luck.