this is a mental health forum, as such, my being supportive is more important to me than a lapse in judgment that someone used when they were expressing themselves. far be it for me to come in here and read a message that was obviously written out of a deep pain and criticize the words that the poster used.

i am so sorry that you were hurt and that you feel so down right now. i am glad that you came here for support and help. we're all here for a purpose and you will find alot of support among the posters here.i'm also sorry that you were judged.......pat