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Originally Posted by salukigirl
well im getting my knowledge from cosmo, and theyve never steered me wrong before lol. i guess after about 30 days a persons true colors are already flying high. they said that most people cant fake a personality for that long so if you go a month with absolutely no conflict, that seems like a pretty good relationship to me. the only problem i could potentially see is that he is head over heels for me lol. and i need some space. but ive told him "im the kind of person that needs her own space sometimes" and he was fine with it. i tell him i want to stay alone some nights or just hang at my house alone and hes cool with it so i dont really even see that being a problem.
thanks everyone for your responses 
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I dunno about you, but I don't believe everything I read...I do believe in people who have experience in long term relationships, failed or not. I know that when I met my wife for the the first oh 6 months, I had no idea she had mental issues, although I don't think I told her about my Anxiety/Panic either...and it has caused quite a few ups and downs. Again, 2 weeks...no. People put up a front for quite a while during the beginning of a relationship, and you won't see a lot of the "real" them for quite a while. There may be some truth in that somet things may or may not happen, but personally, it's mostly BS to me, all just from my 20 years of failed and almost failed marriages. I do hope it all goes well for you tho.