I only said this because I didn't see her mention kids, nor did I see any real abuse, to me, calling someone a name is ... childish, imho, not abusive. She didn't mention drinking was a problem, or any other abusive behavior. Here's that but again, but, I agree if the person is truly abusive get out, and get out quick...I'm still not saying divorce, get yourself out, get them the help they need, AAAA mentioned her father got better, a lot of people can and do get better, but they need help to see what they are doing. Some people honestly don't know they are hurting you until you tell them. We don't get the whole picutre here, I don't think. But, I'm not here to argue, just trying to help...I agree with a truly non repentant abuser, done...but I believe in people too.