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Old Feb 10, 2009, 04:48 PM
Anonymous1532
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I think different Ts have different policies on accepting gifts. I know some people on this board have posted about giving/receiving CDs from their Ts. I don't know how common that is. I personally have never given my T anything and think I would feel weird about doing so (I would be afraid she had a policy against it and wouldn't want me to).

Have you given your T anything else before? Do you know what her policy on this is? Would you be hurt if she didn't want to accept it? Those are the things I would think about.

On the other hand, lots of people bring things to read to their Ts to explain how they're feeling. If that's why you want to give it to her, I could see that being therapeutically helpful. Maybe you could lend it to her, instead of giving it to her, if she would agree to listen to it for that purpose? Or maybe you could bring in some of the lyrics you wanted her to hear and ask her to read them, and then talk about them?

I guess I would try to figure out why I wanted to give such a gift to my T, what is it I was trying to tell her, what response I wanted from her. I would try to unravel all of that in my head...