when we know what our goal is Cap we can better decide what is likely to be helpful and what is not.. for instance, if i suffered a form of discontent, the experience itself is a dark shadowy area, similar to trying to diagnose a needed auto repair, we know little of what caused the malfunction, yet we are required to attempt maintenance... so, we start out with our limited knowledge on the area in question and begin an investigation.. at that point we find possible solutions and we can gather several to choose from.. each may have its own advantage or disadvantage and we have the ultimate control (in most cases) how the auto is serviced...

trying different things will lead us into different areas of repair and that is good or not depending upon your inner need to drive the car... some people learn to walk or bycycle as an alternative to any repair at all....

feeling our way thru we find our own personal path of healing, its just that several of us share a similar vision of certain details and can sometimes band together as a group... it takes time and proof of ones intent is shown in the result, tho the process may have been more efficient looking back in hindsight... thus, learning...

its whats great about PC!