Oh my goodness, for me trust took 9 months to begin and it comes and goes sometimes. That's about us and our feelings about trustworthiness.

I still sometimes don't like being looked at.
Tell her. lol That's what I say when being looked at makes it hard to think, I tell her I feel uncomfortable having her looking at me. There's a lot to talk about in that and when we do, I feel better

A good T doesn't necessarily believe it giving much acknowledgement to SI issues. Mine does not. Instead we talk about what was going on at the time, what I was feeling, what I was fearing, other ways that tension can be broken, and so on.

Then there are the times her looking at me feels absolutely wonderful and caring. I love having her attention and I could sit there forever...