This really has nothing to do with giving gifts. Krazibean isn't spending money on her T. She is giving her something that she made.

Krazibean, I have done this various times with my T. Songs that I have chosen have had various meanings: some have been symbolic to my relationship with T, some are songs that are very significant to me in regards to how I am feeling at a particular time because of my very strong connectiont to music, and some have been symbolic of my relationship with my Dad.

Giving him the CDs was a great idea because it gave him yet another way to know me-- therapy doesn't have to be all about talking. There are other creative ways in which we can let our Ts know who we are. Giving your T a CD is like giving her another window into who you are.