Hi Tait,
I've had a hard time with this too, and I don't think I could keep a job out in the real world. My solution is working from home as a writer. You might want to think about looking at ways that you could define a job that you could do on your own time, when it's good for you. Having a work from home job is the way I manage it, though there are a lot of scams out there, so be careful when you look. Still I don't think hubby should be giving you such a hard time-- sadly, they just don't get it sometimes, do they?

Any chance you could use an attorney to try to get disability in the interim? I know it's pricey. I managed to get it for the first few years because my treatment wasn't doing any good. I know a lot of people get automatically denied, which is awful.

Sending you warm hugs, and remember that there's lots of support here.

Kittykins9