(((( Rain )))) I'm so sorry your mother is like that. Mine was much like that, too. I had to just cut ties with her for awhile to keep myself from being dragged down even further than I was at that time. I think you made a wise choice making her leave.... especially since she was acting like that in front of Jer. It's time for you to take care of YOU.. do what's best for yourself and that precious little boy you have. I'm always here if you need to talk.
Hugs, Jenn