i think with both of you being inexperienced neither really know what to do. and if neither of you are experienced at even pleasuring yourself....well then you dont even know what you like really. even though most women can't, or find it very difficult, to have a vaginal climax, having sex still feels good. you both sound like you need to step on the brakes for a minute and take some time to figure out what turns the both of you on first before just jumping into the thinking of "im bored with sex".

and i would def suggest a book thats something about 365 ways... its like a new position for everyday of the year. good stuff!