I have a situation that's really bugging me.

Let me explain - My fiancée and I are re-modeling our living room. We just got the dry wall up a couple of weeks ago, had a finisher come in and put up a texture on the drywall and we've painted the room & ceiling in it's entirety.

It looks great, btw.

That aside, we have all of our furniture in the computer area. Which is also where we happen to have a security camera set up. It's an IP camera and records motion directly to my desktop and when set to - will upload motion triggered images or videos to my ftp server.

Today - I stayed home from work as i'm feeling really horrible. I must have caught some sort of bug going around - and w/all this free time, I figured it would be a good thing to go through all my old security images and delete what need not be there.

Going through the videos, I saw my fiancee begin to play w/herself at my computer. Not a bad thing.

Then - Her phone rings. She stops, and answers her phone. Toward the end of the call - she begins to play w/herself again, while ON THE PHONE. It certainly wasn't me on the other end!

She knew the camera was on as she looked up at it, smiled and made a kissy face like she knew I would watch or something at the beginning of the video.

She's at work right now and won't be home until tomorrow night. My question is, how do I confront her with this video? I absolutely need to know just who was on the other line.

I want to call her right now and confront her about it but then again, I want to talk w/her face to face and see her immediate reaction, w/o giving her a full day to think about what to say.

We've had our trust issues in the past but this is a whole new level of trust issue.

What's the best avenue to take here? Please, any help is greatly appreciated!