Hello -- I am having a problem with shopping, too. Of course, when everyday living expenses cause a major negative cash flow, any least little thing that I "treat" myself to is "no-no."

However, I recently bought 5 pairs of pjs -- I never did that when I was working! Had more moderation. Brought 3 items back, and I'm working myself to giving up more.

Of course, then I went out & bought a comforter for the bed. Not an expensive one -- but to comfort myself for the expensive one I can't afford! Talk about nuts!

I'm not sure if the forum should be isolated to shopping -- perhaps all addictions, including codependency which, however, fits into relationships.

Thanks for sharing about this Neri.Good topic.