Rainzz ,, If you happen to come to a point where you have to re-consider >. your wants ATM ,, [ for whatever reason ] ,, I would set one rule in place >> * No Button Pushing * >>,,, In other words ,, say >> " If the house needs a move this here and that there " ,, Take the time to relax ,, take a breath ,, and smile at your mom ,, and hand her something to fold >> or help dust ,, [ ?? ] ,, Involve her to the point where she may for a moment feel useful .... Even if it is YOU doing the initiate thingy ....
This is Just in case suggestion >. to try >> * IF * ... 
WMD.