None in the constellation wants to integrate. we have worked with each one on healing their pain. we have found new ways for everyone to express themselves and share their gifts with everyone. naomi paints in watercolors, vicki writes, crystal writes poetry, iris cleans and cooks very impressive meals....and others do other things. our littles have learned to be children without having to hide or cry or be afraid. they have toys that they remember from "their time" and some new toys. its so much fun to see willow play in the snow with the H and not be afraid if she gets wet. it's awesome to see her decorate the christmas tree and not get yelled at for "touching". and to see other littles sit and watch a movie. H is very supportive and gives them hugs and reads to them. we have outside friends who will talk to willow and others of us.
all are healing. there are still very sad times and some flashbacks and triggers but they are getting less and less.
we have been on this journey for near 4 yrs.
Prism
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