(((((((((((((((((notme))))))))))))))))))))) What a painful spot to be in.

T has told me to "trust the process" and I know he believes in it very much, and I DO feel like our relationship has been healing for me. I don't feel HEALED, but I do feel like the process is working...

Do you think that first comes the reminding, and then the healing?? For me, I didn't even know the extent of my own pain until I started therapy and the therapy relationship opened it all up. It felt horrible. Somehow, though, things are changing for me. My wish is that it will change for you too....