I haven't had a job that would actually pay for much, only part times. I've worked in daycare that went pretty well until I moved. I am a substitute teacher, licensed, I don't feel confident that I can handle a full year, full time with my own class. So with subbing, I can go if they call me and if its a bad day, I don't have to go. No worries about sick days and all that.
Possibly tutoring in your home?

No, husbands for sure don't understand. No one who hasn't walked in our shoes understands. Right now, I think you aren't feeling very good and that's going to make it that much harder. I agree with stabilization being key. Definitely keep up with the soc.sec. stuff, you've paid into it, if you can't work then you need this income. Meds, therapy, support...all important ingredients. (by support I mean that of family/peers, etc) I go to a support group for bp'ers once a week, its been great.

all my best,
Amy