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Feb 12, 2009, 11:52 AM
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Member Since: Nov 2008
Posts: 15,166
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Quote:
Originally Posted by imapatient
Sitting, I can totally relate.
Something my T said one time in disagreement when I was talking about this was "There's a person in there."
It helped to hear that so simply put.
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Say that a child can only survive growing up by presenting a good obedient outside, when inside there is huge resentment and anger at the injustice he knows to be the truth.
Suppose this continues during all the home years, say up through age 21 when he graduates college and goes out into the world.
By that time, as he becomes an adult, has he not developed the habit of wearing a false persona? Since he learned to lie early (and well), and continued lying for so many years, is he now just fundamentally a liar? and will always be one?
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