I lost a granddaughter. to me it was the same as losing my child. I had spent from her birth with her up until 2 weeks before her death. she was 13 weeks old. not alot of time to make those kinds of memories that your cousin did but she was my heart. I thought my world had ended right then and there. I can't imagine if she had lived 18 yrs. My prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time hon.