cap i've been in my own crisis and somewhat self absorbed but i always like to read what you post so that's how i got to this one. don't know the main issue but get a gist of it by ppl responding and yours.
when i came to pc i too was hesitant to a cetain degree cause i needed to get to know my way around. i also learned a while back to stick with the winners so of course you were one i gravitated to cause you do give many of us so much hope. your replies are always thoroughly thought thru.
i noticed at certain intervals of time that a person would post all kinds of questions at each forum. as a result i avoided that post because i didn't feel they belonged here. they weren't talking about themselves but blatently just asking a question. it's sad that some people would "join" without revealing their intentions honestly. i wouldn't mind answering a question from an inquisitor if they announced their reasons in the first place.
i also don't sign my irl name until i feel relatively connected with a person at pc. perhaps whatever transpired, that i missed, will put us all on notice and to safeguard the integrity of pc we should report any suspicious posts.
i may be blowing to the wind right now cause i haven't read all the posts..... to know if i'm replying to the topic.
but one thing i do know and it's a positive note...there are some incredibly, genuine ppl here that help one another.i am glad i found pc, but like u i use caution...and also cap, thank you for being here at pc.