This thread reminds me of something my T and I fundamentally disagree on with me. She seems to think I have feelings so buried down there, that I am paying a high "psychological price" for it, but I disagree with her. My life has been pretty benign, it is ok right now, not great, not terrible. That is me. I don't have this hidden trove of feelings deep down as T seems to think. I don't have a "center". I don't know, its hard to explain, but I just don't think I have all these unresolved things. It is true that I'm "stuck" in life, but that is just because I'm a big wuss and afraid of ANY risk or change. So, of course, that is going to lead me to feeling stuck.