See, told you I sometimes have problems articulating...

I guess my first point was, and I ramble a lot, sorry, I don't personally find porn any fun, not interesting, don't want to look at it, doesn't turn me on, etc., etc., etc. Only my wife can do for me sexually, what I need. I look at porn, and nothing, I look at wife and BAM, WOW, WOOT!

My second point is, well, basically communication. If it bothers her that much that he is doing this, she needs to sit him down, and really make him listen, not just hear, and she needs him to talk and say why he's doing it, and if they can't figure out a solution, maybe a T or marriage counseling would be of some help.

Maybe I should really think about stuff before I type them heh...shrug.